Adjusting to life financially after a divorce
There’s no doubt about it — going through a divorce can be an emotionally trying time. Now, more than ever, you need to make sure that your finances are on the right track. You will then be able to put the past behind you and set in place the building blocks that can be the foundation for your new financial future.
Assess Your Current Financial Situation
Following a divorce, you’ll need to get a handle on your finances and assess your current financial situation, considering the likely loss of your former spouse’s income. In addition, you may now be responsible for paying for expenses that you were once able to share with your former spouse, such as housing, utilities, and car loans. Ultimately, you may come to the realization that you’re no longer able to live the lifestyle you were accustomed to before your divorce.
Establish A Budget
A good place to start is to establish a budget that reflects your current monthly income and expenses. In addition to your regular salary and wages, be sure to include other types of income, such as dividends and interest. If you will be receiving alimony and/or child support, you’ll want to include those payments as well.
As for expenses, you’ll want to focus on dividing them into two categories: fixed and discretionary. Fixed expenses include things like housing, food, and transportation. Discretionary expenses include things like entertainment, vacations, etc. The goal of budgeting is mainly to get an understanding of where your money is being spent so that you can make decisions about what is most important to you.
Reevaluate Your Financial Goals
Your next step should be to reevaluate your financial goals. While you were married, you may have set certain financial goals with your spouse. Now that you are on your own, these goals may have changed. Start out by making a list of the things that you now would like to achieve. Do you need to put more money towards retirement? Are you interested in going back to school? Would you like to save for a new home?
Protect/Establish Credit
Since divorce can have a negative impact on your credit rating, consider taking steps to try to protect your credit record and/or establish credit in your own name. A positive credit history is important since it will allow you to obtain credit when you need it and at a lower interest rate. Good credit is even sometimes viewed by employers as a prerequisite for employment.
Review your credit report and check it for any inaccuracies. Are there joint accounts that have been closed or refinanced? Are there any names on the report that need to be changed? You’re entitled to a free copy of your credit report weekly from each of the three major credit reporting agencies. You can go to annualcreditreport.com for more information.
Change Your Beneficiary Designations
After a divorce, you’ll want to change the beneficiary designations on any life insurance policies, retirement accounts, and bank or credit union accounts you may have in place. Keep in mind that a divorce settlement may require you to keep a former spouse as a beneficiary on a policy, in which case you cannot change the beneficiary designation.
This is also a good time to make a will or update your existing one to reflect your new status. Make sure that your former spouse is not still named as a personal representative, successor trustee, beneficiary, or holder of a power of attorney in any of your estate planning documents.
Don’t Be Afraid To Ask For Help
Divorce can be an emotional time that can lead to costly mistakes. Hiring a dedicated professional to help you develop and implement a plan may be the best course of action for many. Proper planning can allow you to feel more confident as you move into this next phase of your life.
